notes from a sissy

the practical side of it, written in the first person: what works, what turned out to be a bad idea, and the bits nobody puts in a guide.

some of these are explicit and say so before you open them. if you want the careful, non-explicit version of the same territory, that's the guides.

• 27 august 2026

  coconut oil as lube, and the ice cube trick

  cheap, lasts, and the frozen-cube trick that fixes the mess.

  read →explicit

the app behind this shares pictures with a few people instead of everyone — you can make an account with a handle and a passkey, no email address.