27 august 2026
A discord for scarf lovers
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I started a discord because liking scarves, for some of us, is not really about the weather. It is about the cloth itself: how it looks on a neck, how it feels in the hand, and how long you end up staring at it.
The server is called Scarf fetish. People talk about silk, wool, cotton, bandanas, hijabs, and shawls. The styles are different, but the interest is the same. We like the way the fabric is tied, how tight it sits, where it covers skin, and where it does not.
Posts are direct. Someone shares a silk scarf pulled close to the throat. Someone else posts a bandana knotted snug, a wool scarf left loose on purpose, or a hijab and shawl that frame the neck and shoulders. People comment on the drape, the knot, the texture, and the body underneath. Thrift finds and worn pieces are welcome. Nobody is selling anything. They are just looking, and saying what they like.
If scarves, silk, bandanas, hijabs, or shawls do something for you – if you notice the wrap, the skin, and the way the cloth is worn – you will fit in. Come for the fabric. Stay if you want to look at it with other people who are looking the same way.
Join via this link: https://discord.gg/SQR6DgdD5P
xoxo — admin sissy of sis-haven
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sis-haven is a safe space for sissies and the people who admire them: share pictures of yourself with a few people instead of with everyone, forever.
- nothing you post is public. no profile, no follower count, no comments, nothing a search engine can reach — this blog is the only public part of it. you share a picture with a few people and don't expose yourself to the whole internet.
- you pick the size. choose how many see your post and optionally how near the people are to you — the server picks who they are.
- a supporting community. viewers can start a private dm from your post — to praise your outfit, or whatever this leads to.
- privacy by design. metadata gets stripped from every photo and video, and your account doesn't even map to an email address. everything you share can be deleted whenever you want.
it's small — a few hundred people — and that is the point. posts fade out of feeds after 30 days.