27 august 2026
coconut oil as lube, and the ice cube trick
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As a sissy, I enjoy playing with my hole (naturally). I have a collection of dildos, butt plugs, and my beloved nJoy wand. But what each session needs is lube.
What kind of lube
There are many kinds of lube; I mostly used water-based or silicone in the past. Water is great but dries up too fast (not great for longer sessions), and silicone is messy and challenging to clean up.
But recently I tried coconut oil, which I liked immediately.
- lasts very long
- cheap
- natural
- gets absorbed by the body
- other use cases: cooking and moisturizing skin
The only downside is that it also is a bit messy. Although having a towel close by and the trick I am about to share make it the perfect tool for me.
Lube cubes
The trick is to freeze the oil into small ice cubes. Then you can easily insert them into your hole and are perfectly lubed up from inside. While inserting parts will also stick on the outside, making it fine to penetrate yourself initially with your toy. Additionally applying the oil to the toy makes it easier to open your hole, but I prefer less mess.
To make the ice cubes, it repurposed an empty blister pack for meds/pills. Regular ice cubes would be too much for the job, and the pill shape is convenient to insert. Also, it is super easy to separate the lube cube from the blister pack.
And if you are quick to insert them, just a tiny bit of oil will melt and stick to your fingers. Just rub it on your face for skin care.
Try it out yourself. You can get 1 kg of coconut oil for 10 quid, which should last you for years (or depending on how naughty you are). Just be careful if you use it with your daddy or somebody else: it can break down latex (the condom).
xoxo — admin sissy of sis-haven
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